Shield & Strategy

Resources · Guides

Plain-language guides,
for the hardest parts.

Longer reads for when you need to understand something all the way down: what a word actually means, how a court really handles it, and where you can steady yourself and start documenting. Written from lived experience, sourced, and kept honest about their limits.

Coercive Control & Post-Separation Abuse


The pattern underneath the fights, and how it keeps going after you leave. These guides explain what coercive control is, how a court can and can’t reach it, and the forms the abuse takes once a divorce is under way.

Parental Alienation


A false or weaponized “alienation” claim is one of the sharpest flashpoints in a high-conflict case. These guides explain what the term actually is and how courts weigh it, so it reads like an argument to answer, not a verdict to absorb.